I need some advice.... (please no rude comments)?

im really in need of some help. i have been married for 6 yrs and im not sure its going to work anymore. i feel like im always walking on egg shells, so i don't say or do the wrong thing. i know that i love my husband but i feel like its not enough anymore. he has never physically abused me but the emotional and mental abuse is definitely there. we also have 2 children and i don't want to hurt them. some of the things he does is: he doesn't want me to spend time with my sisters or my parents, he hates that im close to my family. he doesn't want the kids to be around them a lott either. hedoesn'tt want me to celebrate the kids bdays. he will go days without talking to me, for reasons i stilldon'tt know. he wants me to tell my parents to stay away on holidays. and we have countless disagreements on our children.that'ss just to name a few... Am ioverreactingg????